Most of these groups have been small, easy to organize, voluntary and efficient.
However, that kind of luck can only hold out so long... in my case, that was until yesterday.
A larger group, chattering with nervousness, all concerned about completely different issues, is like hitching horses to a cart pointed in opposite directions. Everyone gets worn out quickly and no one gets anywhere.
Lesson 38: I can be a better leader than I ever give myself credit for.
This is something I need to remind myself of, and more importantly, it can be true of just about everyone.
Just breathe, and look at the big picture. That was the only way I was able to get our (supposed to be) half hour group meeting done in under 2 hours. The solution I found was to go through and write down everything that needed to be done without, and this is the part my group seemed to have the most trouble with, worrying about who was doing what. Every time we got sidetracked with that, the group energy would just shoot off into a worry spiral. But focusing just on what needed to be done, we got a whole picture of everything that we could then slice up between us and ensure that the work was divided equally.
I just wish I could have executed that solution sooner.
Add that meeting to the list of things that should be followed by a stiff drink...
Turns out that's just for the other section. I get to live in ignorance and stay in the program just a little bit longer [/unnecessary theatrics, melodrama and exaggeration]
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